Heartless

I guess the "overly dramatic i have to be your friend in a hard time to make myself feel important or caring" person would consider me heartless for my opinions on some things. If that's how they feel, well, okay. That doesn't change my opinion.

I'm not one to tell someone how to handle a situation. if advice is asked for then I will tell you my opinion but otherwise I'll leave it be to your own dismay. However, I am also not someone to continually give sympathy to someone who merely strives to get attention.

It baffles me how someone can pick apart every single event and turn it around to be ALL ABOUT THEM. Hard times hit everyone, does that mean that you have to ruin the good times for everyone else? I surely hope not, but for some that appears to be the only outlet.

I'm still in shock at how so many people can buy into the pity parties. Really? What's done is done. Be a true friend and help them get through it. Don't hinder their growth by giving into they're almost pathetic attempt for attention.

It is IMPOSSIBLE to be something you never were. So why claim it now? It's becoming more and more evident it's all an attention hoax. While my heart hurts for people in these situations, it is also angered by their lack of consideration.

I will be the first one to be there for you if you need me. However, I will NOT say what you want to hear. I will call it like I see it. That's what a TRUE friend does. If you look fat in a shirt and ask me "do I look fat?" I will most definitely tell you yes. I would rather you be at your best than continue to allow you to hide under the fakeness of a false reality.

Reality is not the colors people paint your world, reality is the black and white that is there when the colors fade...